In this blog, I write about several areas of our lives, to help you to be happy in all of them. To me, this is the concept of happiness: to find balance in all areas of our lives.
And one are that can not be neglected is FAMILY. It doesn’t matter how crazy our family is. And how imperfect it may be.
We identify ourselves and learn how we are and where we belong from our families. Like everybody else, I have problems in my family, but I work everyday to be a better person so I can handle my relatives better. We find love there no matter what. We should nurture and appreciate our family.
How? Learning to see the best in every person. A very hard task if you ask me. But nothing is more rewarding than this. Because when you focus on the best in another person, all the good characteristics of this person will be shown to you. Unfortunately the contrary is also true.
So, here’s what I am trying to do everyday in my life and suggest you do it too: Look for the characteristics you like in every person in your family.
Now, when it comes to our kids, we can start this earlier, and can teach them how to do teh same. If they learn how to do this form an early age, they will find no difficult in this. Is there a greater present as a parent that we can give our children? All their relationships will be better because of this.
I don’t have kids yet, but I like to think I will be able to be an example to them regarding this. That’s why I like to educate myself before they come so when it happens, I’ll be more prepared.
I know I want to be in a happy family. I want to be a good daughter, a good sister, a good wife and a good parent. Parenting is new to me, so I found a resource that can help me with that. I think maybe it can help you too or even if you are already a parent who are struggling to raise your kids well.
If you are like me and think that knowledge is gold, along with this tip I just gave you, here’s another resource to help to be a better parent.